tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5267422146697431968.post4365953981632542787..comments2021-05-30T22:20:02.173-06:00Comments on Trashy's Treasures: The truth about turn-onsAmelia Jameshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03778771052072403010noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5267422146697431968.post-43251214785342289472011-05-11T07:03:56.637-06:002011-05-11T07:03:56.637-06:00@Kendall, Oh yeah, you can't tell kids not to ...@Kendall, Oh yeah, you can't tell kids not to do something. It just makes them want it more. Actually, that works on my husband too.Amelia Jameshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03778771052072403010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5267422146697431968.post-64332374785815042142011-05-11T06:35:17.647-06:002011-05-11T06:35:17.647-06:00I grew up Catholic, and I still harbor *tons* of g...I grew up Catholic, and I still harbor *tons* of guilt. About everything. To this day, I can't lie. If I do, I will either spill my guts five seconds after the words leave my mouth or the lie festers in my brain until I can't see straight and I come clean later. Plus, I'm just an awful liar. You'd totally know if I were trying to pull the wool over your eyes.<br /><br />Though I KendallGreyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02029447701416121956noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5267422146697431968.post-85698710413374520182011-05-10T13:06:48.640-06:002011-05-10T13:06:48.640-06:00@Carissa, That's been my experience too.@Carissa, That's been my experience too.Amelia Jameshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03778771052072403010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5267422146697431968.post-42321818036687264362011-05-10T12:35:42.905-06:002011-05-10T12:35:42.905-06:00I can't say that I blame Christianity either. ...I can't say that I blame Christianity either. There are many divisions that are more liberal... It's been my experience, however, that the stigma against women and sex has a direct correlation to the Church, often times. ;)Carissa Andrewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09956041638794014466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5267422146697431968.post-1642475345337177222011-05-10T10:29:13.045-06:002011-05-10T10:29:13.045-06:00@Carissa, I try not to blame Christianity. The chu...@Carissa, I try not to blame Christianity. The church I went to was a little off the deep end. My husband was raised in a Christian family, and he doesn't have any of the hang ups or guilt I did. Thank God for testosterone. Yum.<br /><br />@Lori, I like playing the sub too, and then I rebel. hehe. I'm looking forward to Make or Break.Amelia Jameshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03778771052072403010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5267422146697431968.post-27523736791644624022011-05-10T10:13:34.770-06:002011-05-10T10:13:34.770-06:00The day my mother lost the ability to tell me what...The day my mother lost the ability to tell me what to do regarding sex was when I was 13 and she told me she could totally live without sex, and could have been a nun. (My poor father!) Even at that age, I knew sex was going to be... important, so I no longer valued her opinion on the matter. My turn-ons... I feel the most powerful when I'm being dominated just a little. No degradation, just Lorihttp://www.loriwhitwam.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5267422146697431968.post-85175786460207195582011-05-10T06:50:02.302-06:002011-05-10T06:50:02.302-06:00Great post! I think many women get stuck in this i...Great post! I think many women get stuck in this initial mind trap, because it's the way society wants/needs us to be. I was lucky, I had a very liberal and eclectic upbringing who didn't try to condemn sex as a bad thing. That's not to say they wanted me doing it at a young age, but they recognized the natural progression of it. They also understood the medical benefits of a healthy Carissa Andrewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09956041638794014466noreply@blogger.com